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1. Who will be photographing me?

Your photographer will be Gary, the founder of After Dark Boudoir. While Gary is male, this is actually a great advantage. With years of experience in photographing dancers and capturing the subtle beauty of form, light, and emotion, Gary brings a sensitive, respectful, and artistic eye to boudoir. Many of our clients have said they feel seen, elegant, and powerful in a way they didn’t expect. Gary is calm, professional, and deeply committed to helping every woman feel safe, confident, and beautiful.

2. Will a female assistant be present during the shoot?

Absolutely. A trusted female assistant will always be present during your shoot. She’s there to help with adjustments, give support, and ensure that you’re completely comfortable from start to finish.

3. Do you offer hair and makeup services?

Yes! We work with professional hair and makeup artists who specialise in beauty styling for photography. Whether you want a soft natural glow or full glam, they’ll tailor the look to your preferences. You’ll feel pampered and polished—and totally ready to step in front of the camera.

4. I’ve never done anything like this before…      will you guide me?

Yes, 100%. Most of our clients have never done a boudoir shoot before. We’ll guide you through every pose, every look, every moment. You don’t need to know how to model—we’ll direct you in a way that flatters your unique shape, personality, and comfort level. You’ll leave feeling empowered, not exposed.

5. What if I don’t feel confident in my body?

You’re not alone—many women come to us feeling unsure about how they look. That’s exactly why boudoir is so powerful. You don’t need to lose weight, be a certain age, or look like a model. Our shoots are designed to celebrate real women, real bodies, and real stories. We’ll highlight your best features and help you see the beauty you might have forgotten was there.

6. Can I bring someone with me?

Yes, you’re welcome to bring a female friend or partner for moral support if that helps you feel more relaxed. We do ask that they respect the shoot process and the creative environment we’ve built. Most clients feel so at ease with our team that they end up coming solo!

7. What do I wear? Do I have to get naked?

You wear whatever makes you feel sexy and confident. That could be lingerie, a favourite dress, a man’s shirt, a leather jacket—some women even bring vintage pieces or personal items. As for nudity: it’s entirely up to you. Some clients prefer to stay fully clothed, others go as bare as they dare. You’re always in control.

8. What if I have scars, stretch marks, or things I don’t want to show?

We hear this a lot—and it’s completely normal. With flattering lighting, careful posing, and thoughtful editing, we celebrate your beauty while minimising any areas you’re self-conscious about. We’ll never make you look unnatural—just your most confident and radiant self.

9. Is my privacy protected?

Always. Your photos are 100% private unless you give us written permission to share specific images. Many clients choose to keep their photos for themselves, and we absolutely respect that. Your comfort and confidentiality are non-negotiable. We keep your images on an encrypted drive so they can never be accessed by any unauthorised person. We also do our own editing, so your images never leave the studio (except to go to trusted suppliers when purchasing wall art etc.)

10. I’m nervous… is that normal?

Totally! Most women feel nervous before their session, but by the time we’re shooting, they’re laughing, glowing, and feeling powerful. The nerves melt away quickly—and we’ll be with you every step of the way to make sure you feel supported and celebrated.

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